No shame dentistry: a real approach to caring for people
I had a powerful experience with a new patient this week. This man had avoided the dentist for ten years and was scared to death to return. He was afraid and ashamed that his mouth might be falling apart. He had had very bad experiences years ago that left him feeling awful about himself and resentful toward dentists. As my new patient consultation appointment proceeded, this man would stop, shake his head, bring his hands to his face holding back inner emotions and say “wow.” He was overwhelmed by genuine, non-blameful caring.
He hung out with my office manager afterward and went on and on about how relieved, hopeful, and genuinely excited he was. He knew he could have good dental health and how we were going to help him with sedation dentistry to get a few things back under control. He could have confidence in himself again and the dentist wasn’t going to be the enemy any more. As a dentist, this is what it is all about for me: helping people get to a better place in their lives. Read the rest of this entry »


